MyJoyOnline published a column about testing love over time
MyJoyOnline published a column on the role of time in relationships. The author reflects that the duration of a relationship and circumstances experienced together can show whether feelings are sincere and intentions are genuine.
Time and intentions
The column says that promises of love, devotion, and support require confirmation through actions. In the author’s view, time reveals whether a person stands by what they said when difficulties, poverty, or personal disagreements arise in a relationship.
The author also addresses the subject of motives in close relationships. He suggests that over time it may become clear whether affection is based on a sincere attitude toward a person, on what that person has, or on a desire for one’s own comfort.
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Love as an action
Love is described in the text not only as a feeling, but also as a voluntary action and a willingness to make an effort. The author compares promises to a free food order at a restaurant: fulfilling what was promised, in his view, comes at a cost.
According to the author, losing a job, changes in appearance with age, and other difficult life circumstances may become tests for partners. The column calls on readers not to rush to conclusions about another person’s feelings and to assess them by the consistency of their actions over time.
